I believed I have mentioned in one of my blogs about our concern with my son's academic performance. Apparently, his shyness and low self esteem are the main factors why his grades refuse to take off during the first term. Fortunately, GWA has this Parents Teachers Conference where we parents had the opportunity to ask all the concerned teachers and even the principals and guidance counsellors. This PTC is not new to me since I used to attend Xavier's own PTC. It was great and it gave me peace of mind knowing that my son has supportive and compassionate teachers. They let me feel that they are aware of what new families in an IB curriculum are going through. I also had the chance to tell them that my son was extremely shy and it would take time for him to get out of his shell. They assured me that they are already doing something to encourage him to participate in class and to be more sociable.
But at home, I knew I have to do my part. As a parent of a teenager you have to strike the balance between "a nagging and an understanding" mom. It's hard because I didn't undergo that "confused and all I want is to be with myself" phase. I was a natural extrovert, never been shy, never been silent and always so vocal, regardless if I was wrong or correct.
I had heart to heart talk so did my hubby with my teenager. We laid out the options as well as the consequences of not exerting effort and not pushing yourself a little harder. We were on the verge of surrendering, like leave it all to God. Whatever. But you know as a mother this should be out of the question. You never give up on your children esp. if you see hope.
So I began my little project. I posted encouraging words on conspicuous places in their bedroom and bathroom. Each week is different so they won't get tired of seeing the same thing everyday.
I started two weeks ago but I forgot to document the first batch.
These are the quotes I selected from the internet and hoping that one or two can inspire my children.
(sorry about this shabby sheet. Obviously, I forgot all about blogging)
Raising a teenager is an entirely new journey. I am hoping for the best. I knew I was raised well and may this be my guiding light in every step I make. :)
